Asked 11/29/2007
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WHAT'S GOING ON WITH MY HUSBAND SINCE JUNE WERE SEPARATED CAUSE I HAVE TO GET STRAIGHT SOME SITUATIONS OF HEALTH, ECONOMIC AND CHILDRENS, BUT HE SAID THAT THE LONELINESS MAKE MIM GET ANOTHER WOMAN WHICH SHE'S MARRIED WITH PLANS OF GET DIVORCE, WHAT I DON'T GET IS, THAT HE SAID HE LOVE ME AND MISS ME BUT TREAT ME WITH INDIFERENCE, HARDLY WE SPEAK BY PHONE. ANYWAY, AS I SEE THIS IS OVER BUT HE CAN'T BE MORE THAN 24 HOURS TO CALL OR TEXT WITH ANY EXCUSE WHICH OBVIOUSLY ALWAYS END UP IN A FIGHT. BY THE WAY IS NO WAY I'LL GO BACK WHERE HE LIVES NOT BY CHOICE BUT MY CHILDRENS LIVES HERE WITH THEIR FATHER AND I WANT TO BE CLOSE AT THEM. |
Answer 1/4 - Submitted 11/29/2007
This is a classic case (from your side of the story) of control. Your husband wants to have his cake and eat it to. He can have his new girlfriend and not only justify to himself but further project guilt on you by saying he needs her because you are so far away. Meh!
If you really see this as over, you need to make the decision to clearly communicate that and set boundaries, emotional and physical then really stick to them. Tell him that it isn't ok to call and say those things because it makes you upset or whatever the case may be. Be tactful and direct.
That way you have control of your situation and he has control of his which is where healing can take place and you both can move on.
Answer 2/4 - Submitted 4/17/2008
Answer 3/4 - Submitted 9/27/2008
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